yoshichic says, “I think it’s good he sent you a text, because it shows that he’s thinking about you.” 

Thank you for the feedback! I wish I could think positively like you can. But I must admit, I’m a little jaded. I can’t help but swirl around a bitter taste from the fact that he keeps asking me to go back to his place. First of all he texted me Saturday night after midnight. Before I even engaged in a conversation with him I knew he was drunk texting me. Granted, he was thinking about me, but I would rather have gotten a text the next morning at a more decent hour. 

I don’t know..maybe I’m just a little jaded and mistrusting of men, but I can’t help it, because I really can provide good reasons for thinking the way I do. 

I guess, it’s better for me to be on my guard than to be blind sided by yet another terrible experience with dating a guy.